Josh Getzler
Last week, alert client Elaine Powell tweeted an article at me about a new feature of some UK writers conferences: Dog Walks with Agents. The title of the article in the Bookseller was "Literary Agents Try To Change 'Distant' Image"
It seems that at two literary festivals in England, one of the featured events was a morning jaunt where agents and authors bonded over their dogs, thus humanizing the agents, who might otherwise be thought of as foreboding or unapproachable.
Hmm.
I had a bunch of thoughts about this, all of which were surprisingly negative. I say surprisingly because a) I am a huge dog person, having spent much of my life cohabiting with various retrievers; and b) because I have made a serious effort since becoming an agent to be Out There and approachable. I have spent a lot of time at conferences. I am active on Twitter and Facebook, and have written this blog weekly for more than three years now. So why was my visceral reaction to roll my eyes at such a benign (and likely fun) event?
As I parsed it, I realized that there were two things. The first is that the places I spend most of my time talking to authors at conferences tends to be at the bar (along with everyone else!), where people organically gather at these confabs after a long day of panels and pitches. It’s not forced and it’s not scheduled. (Sometimes it can get sloppy, but that too can say something—how much to do want to work with the agent who starts spilling secrets after a couple of vodka tonics? Maybe it’s a strikeout, but to some, maybe a home run…) I don’t find it to be filled with peer pressure, and agents assume they are going to chat with people they don’t know—with the invite and the plane ticket is the unspoken understanding that you’ll hold court in the lobby.
The second issue I had with this article had to do with the assumption that agents are scary and intimidating and unapproachable, and they will be humanized through their relationships with their pets. There are two things about this: The first is that fundamentally I find that the vast majority of agents (like the vast majority of editors and the bulk of writers I meet, for that matter), are very nice and human (at least in small doses). We enter this business, as I’ve said any number of times in this space, because we want to LIKE things, to say YES, even though we ultimately reject the majority of queries we receive. But our mindset is largely positive and we at least TRY to be optimistic. So we’re approachable. Not like a golden retriever, but not like a komodo dragon, either.
But the other thing that I realized is that, while I am very happy to hang out at the bar with writers who either just finished pitching their manuscripts to me or are going to in the morning, I do think there is a very reasonable desire to be slightly distant from writers who are not clients. My social media persona (as is true with many of my peers), is what I want it to be, by and large. If you look me up, you will know that I play drums, love women’s basketball, am active in my synagogue and with some animal rights groups, am married with kids, and represent a lot of crime and historical fiction, some children’s books, and Other. And that’s fine. In fact, it’s more than many of my colleagues would put out there, but I think it’s enough to be interesting without oversharing.
My clients often know me better, but then, we have a closer relationship, and it’s a two-way street. They can know more about what I think about things, or some of my views. But I think it’s appropriate for there to be a bit of distance between agent and prospective client.
Finally, I was wondering why walking a dog with me would give you an indication as to my knowledge of the crime fiction market, or how well I line edit (Sheila Boneham, don't kill me!!!!). Now I’m not being obtuse—I know that what breed of dog I have can give as much of an indication as to my personality as the brand of scotch I drink, and I can talk about noir with Frisbees as easily as with tumblers. But in the same way that certain manuscripts can be written perfectly well but have a tone that’s just slightly off, so too is the Dog Walking at the Lit Conference.
Josh, I won't kill you over line editing, but by now you should know how to spell my name. Or was that a line editing test? :-)
Re walking with dogs - I didn't react exactly negatively when I read about that, but honestly, it seems silly to me. And you know how doggy I am!
Posted by: Sheila Boneham | October 28, 2014 at 09:13 PM
ACK! Sorry Sheila! Johs
Posted by: Josh Getzler | October 28, 2014 at 09:23 PM
Will the shoulder allow for leash-holding these days? I have never found you unapproachable or intimidating. I don't recall ever meeting an agent who was, now that I think about it. But the image thing is weird.
Posted by: Jeff Cohen | October 28, 2014 at 10:17 PM
I'm not a dog person. How many agents does that rule out?
Posted by: Lynne Patrick | October 29, 2014 at 07:52 AM
Doing the dog-bonding thing is bound to force the conversation mostly in the doggy direction -- when what the writer really wants to do is lead the conversation into a "my best-seller manuscript!" direction. Plus it rules out not only agents but also writers who aren't dog persons. Problematic in the mystery field, where there are so many mysteries-with-cat series.
Posted by: Mario in DC | October 29, 2014 at 09:31 AM
I don't drink alcohol so I've never chatted with anyone at a bar. I know. It's so shocking for everyone who thinks bars are normal! If I still had no agent, I'd sign up for dog walking and the whole time kick myself, because--hello. Who's going to bond over writing by doing anything else besides exchange writing? I've had a slightly more personal relationship with several agents who ended up passing, and almost no relationship with you and Danielle who ended up asking me to sign. That said, whatever works for people, huh?
Also, some day I must hang out at a bar with my water bottle just to add variety to my life.
Posted by: Nikki Trionfo | October 29, 2014 at 10:05 AM
Does the conference provide the dogs?
Posted by: Janet Reid | October 29, 2014 at 10:11 AM
Janet: No, it's BYOD.
Lynne--Only the ones with taste :) (Seriously though, it would be much easier with cats. But, I mean, trying to walk cats?)
Posted by: Josh Getzler | October 29, 2014 at 10:53 AM
I think you do a great job of being approachable etc. at conferences and letting prospective clients know who you are via social media, but if you were really on your agent game, you'd come walk MY dog!
Posted by: Linda Hull | October 29, 2014 at 01:41 PM